Do you want to be right?
Or are you working for repair?
7 Reasons Why Being Right is Different Than Working Repair.
Being right values information. > > > Working repair values relationships.
Being right works through reason. > > > Working repair also works with emotion.
Being right looks at what was. > > > Working repair sees what can be.
Being right focuses on the parts. > > > Working repair focuses on the whole.
Being right is static. > > > Working repair is a process.
Being right is a conversation stopper. > > > Working repair is a dialogue.
Being right is about right and wrong. > > > Working repair adds wisdom and love.
People who think they are relational, really need to understand at the expert level, how people formed to not feel have worked very hard at being cognitive. They have to use grace, what's that Willard quote about burning grace like a 474 burns fuel? If they are unable to do that, they are being left side of your chart also. The right side of the chart is really not about work but about grace.